These single stories and the lasting impressions they put on
us really hinder our ability to open up or to want to associate with those that
fall within the stories. For me it is easier to just stick to the assumptions
than it is to go outside of my comfort zone to attempt to either dismiss or confirm
them. I think one of the bigger single stories that are associated with being
on a college campus is the stigma behind Greek life. There are so many stories
around fraternity and sorority life that get scrutinized and bashed, but the
mission and the people behind these organizations are passionate, motivated,
and want to make a difference. I have
plenty of friends and classmates in Greek organizations and they don’t fall
into this single story. My personal impression of the dangers of a single story
has to do with a cop and this is a story that I think has become larger in
society in the past weeks with all the police brutality seen in the news. Less
and less people believe they are able to trust cops and that is becoming a
problem.
About five years ago a friend of mine told me that his mom
was dating a cop. There are always assumptions made when it comes to people of
authority, but the assumption I made about this cop was because of what city he
was a cop for. In Akron there is a city
called Fairlawn and there aren't many good stories associated with cops of this
city. All my life I heard about how callous, devious, and relentless these cops
were so I obviously felt like I couldn't trust this man. When I was around him
I felt uneasy and I felt as if I had to watch what I said or how I acted. After
I spent some time around him my assumptions were soon dispelled. I came to find
that he was a very entertaining, adventurous and caring individual. I saw how
he treated the kids and was interested in what we were doing. As I said earlier
it would have been easier to just assume he was like all the cops that I hear
about, but that would not have been fair. I am glad I got to know him and I
think it is funny looking back at how I perceived him to be.